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Saturday, March 07, 2009

Men.

I swear I was going to blog about how awesome Jason Mraz's concert was or how Slumdog Millionaire made me feel so good today...but this one issue has been gnawing at my mind on my way back home from a night out with the girls. I feel so strongly about it that I drove home a little quicker so that I can come back and blog about it.

So that I will never forget.

Men are dangerous. Men are volatile. Men lie. Men are apparently capable of loving more than one. Men have problems staying loyal because it is apparently in their genes to impregnate as many women as possible *roll eyes*. Men make too many excuses without ever owning up to them. And some men should really just shove their sticks up their own asses.

Men can be as despicable as they want but women should always remember that they don't have to stand for it.

Never ever be made to feel like you're second best.
A person who does not treat you like you're No. 1 DOES NOT deserve to be your No. 1.
Love is ALWAYS fair, with no one actually calculating.
If he is not treating you right, LEAVE, no matter how much you think you love him.
There is always someone better. Someone who will love you the way you want to be loved. Always know what you want and how you want to be treated and NEVER settle for less.
Never make excuses for him.
Never think that you don't deserve more. Because you do.
There is always a limit to understanding and compromise. Once crossed, say STOP, FINISH, DONE. BYE BYE.

This is why relationships can be so scary. Because you can lose yourself and be so infused with the idea of love (that probably once existed) that you can't find your way out. The worst is to love someone more than you love yourself. I never believed in that. I've always believed in loving myself first. It probably sounds selfish but I can't see myself loving or treating anyone right if I don't start with myself. Because if I know how to love myself I would know how to love others and treat them with the respect that I'd expect for myself.

Okay fine. If you must love someone more than you love yourself, at least make sure that that someone is worth it. There's nothing worst than giving your all to someone who doesn't give a rat's ass.

Ugh. I really cannot stand how some men can have the audacity to do so wrong and expect to be forgiven. I really cannot stand how these men can remain on a pedestal despite acting like the lowest life-form that deserves to be squish dead under your heels. I'd take them all down if I could. For causing all the hurt and the misery that no one deserves to endure.

ALL YOU CHEATERS, LIARS, MANIPULATORS SHOULD FALL OFF A CLIFF AND NOT DIE.

Okay, I feel better now that I got all that rage out. My god, I was so mad. I just really hate seeing people I love being mistreated.

Alright now I'm really tired. I shall go sleep. I hope I won't dream of killing certain people. >__<

Hi baby :) . Don't be scared. I love you and this does not apply to you okay. I know you're not sadistic enough to incur my wrath. :D :D :D <3

melia signed out with love @ 1:05 AM (2) earthling(s) farted

Comments:

I absolutely love what you've written. It's empowering. Here I am reading it (again) because I really need the reminder. Thanks.

# posted by

Anonymous : 11:15 PM

Baby I fell off a cliff and didn't die :D I think I might me Jesus. Or Super Man. I always thought they were the same guy...or robot.

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Anonymous : 4:13 AM

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